Ready For Love: It’s amazing how a woman managed to keep her virginity almost her whole life. But it’s more astonishing that at the age of 70, she is letting the whole world know that she’s now ready to take the plunge for the right bloke. You read it right, the “never-been-touched” 70-year-old folk is on her quest for a lifetime lover.
Virgin Pam Shaw: I am ready
Pam Shaw, also known as “The Sexational Pam”, is a cabaret singer who lives in Wigan, Greater Manchester. She has always put her career before her love life that she never had the time to find the man of her dreams. But the long wait is over. Pam feels that she is ready to give her hand in marriage and lose her virginity to the right man. However, for interested gentlemen, it wouldn’t be that easy to get hot Pam. She isn’t lowering her standards and she still hopes to find a tall, dark and handsome millionaire. She said that a person is never too old for anything so here she is, looking for the right one.
What took her so long?
Sexational Pam, as a cabaret singer, always wears revealing costumes when she performs on Britain’s club circuit. “Men saw the outfits I wore on stage and thought I would be easy. But I’ve never really been intimate with a man, just a bit of kissing. I had a sexy stage name and dressed sexy but that was all for my career.” The 70-year-old virgin said, that she is not a believer of sex before marriage and has been very busy with her career, that sometimes she’d only have an hour of sleep each night. For her, marriage meant giving up on her dreams. In 1960, Pam won Opportunity Knocks, a TV talent show that put her career into the limelight. And during her prime days, she has been linked to famous stars like Tom Jones, Engelbert Humperdink and Roger Moore but has managed to keep her womanhood as it was. Pam said that there were some guys who caught her attention but real intimacy was not there. “In 1976 I was proposed to by an oil rig worker in Blackpool. I said yes but later broke it off when I realised I didn’t fancy him.” “The only man I thought I could go to bed with was a guy who came to watch me every night when I sang in Malta. But I wasn’t prepared to settle down — so it wasn’t to be.”
Pam lived with her mother, Lilian, until she died in 1995 at the age of 97. This incredible woman has captured the interest of many people, beating Steve Carell’s character in the film “The 40-Year-Old Virgin”.
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Average Age at First Sexual Intercourse
According to a study about American sexual behavior, average age of a first sexual encounter is almost the same for men and women.
Aged 15 to 44: Women average age of first sexual intercourse was 17.3 years. Men average age of first sex was 17.0 years.
Tips for Foreplay
Foreplay is very important in sexual activities because it creates erotic arousal prior to sexual intercourse. Women are different from men in terms of sexual arousal, they need to be warmed up before they are set to groove for sex. Pleasing a woman in sexual activities really takes a lot of foreplay skills. Men should be kind enough and unselfish in giving his girlfriend or spouse the great sexual satisfaction of their entire life. This article is for men, which will discuss some foreplay tips in seducing and giving a woman excitement for sexual encounter.
Foreplay: Dirty Talk
This is somehow fun and naughty. Talk to your lady how eager you want to stroke her beautiful hair and touch her hot and sexy body. Tell her in which parts of her body you love most to kiss and to play with. Help her imagine the inner pleasure and surely she’ll start to initiate sex with you as soon as possible. Dirty talk is not done only in the bedroom; it can be done anywhere you want. Try to surprise your woman at work and send her dirty talk messages. See how she’s excited to go home and be with you intimately.
Be Physically Fit. Keeping the body in shape keeps the libido healthy and active. Do some exercises like running, jogging or going to the gym. It is also better if couples exercise together to be closer with each other.
Flirt with your partner. Rekindle the heat by surprising your partner for instance with naughty messages while at work. Talk about how sexy he/she is and how excited to see him/her at the end of the day and get your partner in the groove.
Set a romantic mood by arranging the bedroom buy lighting up scented candles to invigorate sexual desires. The aroma scent should be erotically inviting such as the scents of jasmine, sandalwood and ylang ylang.
Try a new sex position to add excitement. Learn from the Kama Sutra, there are over 60 different sex positions available.
Get out of the comfort zone. The bedroom is not the only place that couples can have sex. Try to have sex in the other places but make sure and be careful not to get caught. Some examples are in the garden, in a car, living room, kitchen and more.
Dirty Talk, Strip Dance
Did you know that women also loved to watch their men performing a strip dance for them? Yes, women really love it. This kind of foreplay is very exciting and sexy for women. Your lady will be craving more to have you as she sees you dancing erotically; while stripping of your clothes showing your sexy and physically fit body in front of her. For more intense passion give her eye to eye contact and slowly undress her while taking her to dance with you.
Touch and Kiss
Every woman wants to be touched and kissed intimately. The best technique is to touch and smooch her erogenous zones. These zones include her neck, ears, inner thighs, butt, lips, breast and of course her vaginal area. Vaginal area is the most important zone to engage foreplay with a woman. Rubbing her vaginal outer lips in a circular motion will start her natural lubrication process. As she’s ready to get more sexual pleasure, start to kiss and suck her clitoris while your fingers are playing inside her. Surely, she will really feel great and will ask for more.
Porn movies are great in helping couples by putting them in the mood to make love. Reading Sensual Writer helps, too, First and foremost, you should ask your woman if she is the type who also enjoys watching adult movies. Try to watch porn while both of you are naked and get some ideas, techniques and sex positions that are new to you. As both of you are already aroused and ready for a sexual groove be sure to focus on each other, not only on the movie. Just keep your imagination going and enjoy the sexual activity.
Foreplay Tips to Remember
Touch and Kiss
So there you go guys, surely these foreplay tips will make your woman’s sex drive crazy and she will beg for more. It is also important for men to learn more and enhance their foreplay skills to make their sexual life great and enjoyable. The more you know the better you perform.